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Have admit that I use it quite a lot, including to people I don't know that well. Had the boiler serviced yesterday by someone I see once a year. As he left I just said "cheers mate, see you in 12 months".

Just rolled the tongue without thinking.

Hope he wasn't upset. Might call him later and apologise if it embarrassed or annoyed him.
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Zambo wrote: Fri Sep 09, 2022 11:12 am Have admit that I use it quite a lot, including to people I don't know that well. Had the boiler serviced yesterday by someone I see once a year. As he left I just said "cheers mate, see you in 12 months".

Just rolled the tongue without thinking.

Hope he wasn't upset. Might call him later and apologise if it embarrassed or annoyed him.
See, your use of mate is reasonable. It’s not ostentatious, matey or pretentious as it could be but more as a friendly suffix and to show appreciation. I guess it’s more how it’s used and the tone that it’s said with.

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kancutlawns wrote: Fri Sep 09, 2022 11:19 am
Zambo wrote: Fri Sep 09, 2022 11:12 am Have admit that I use it quite a lot, including to people I don't know that well. Had the boiler serviced yesterday by someone I see once a year. As he left I just said "cheers mate, see you in 12 months".

Just rolled the tongue without thinking.

Hope he wasn't upset. Might call him later and apologise if it embarrassed or annoyed him.
See, your use of mate is reasonable. It’s not ostentatious, matey or pretentious as it could be but more as a friendly suffix and to show appreciation. I guess it’s more how it’s used and the tone that it’s said with.
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Lawns goes ballistic at bath time...MATEY NOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

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It sets my teeth on edge when Adam "The Catman" Caterall calls boxers he's never met "Meht", assuming an intimacy that only exists in his head. I'm fine when people say it to me. What else are they supposed to say?
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Odd thing to cream ones pantaloons over tbh, calling someone mate.
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It’s about what’s appropriate with the tone. Would you expect King Charles III to address some lowly surf on the way to the bog as “pip pip my mate. Would one care to relocate one’s arse before he gets a bloody good kicking away from the vestry as one needs to park one’s plums on the disc shaped orifice to clear one’s bowels?”

I do prefer being called sir, darling or boss, to be fair. It gives seniority, respect and reverence then some cunt calling me a common old mate.

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Fucking hell, moon meriodation doing my swede
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Whose the Nobby No-mates that thought this thread would be interesting?
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The Ghost of Alex Higgins wrote: Fri Sep 09, 2022 6:57 pm Fucking hell, moon meriodation doing my swede
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JudgeTedd wrote: Fri Sep 09, 2022 10:18 pm Whose the Nobby No-mates that thought this thread would be interesting?
Whose?

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The Ghost of Alex Higgins wrote: Fri Sep 09, 2022 6:57 pm Fucking hell, moon meriodation doing my swede
It's not 'moon meridation' thicko, it's having an opinion you don't like. :wink: If you don't like it then go and run into a busy road with your eyes closed if its all to much for you to bear.

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Mate!
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kancutlawns wrote: Sat Sep 10, 2022 2:41 pm
JudgeTedd wrote: Fri Sep 09, 2022 10:18 pm Whose the Nobby No-mates that thought this thread would be interesting?
Whose?
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JudgeTedd wrote: Fri Sep 09, 2022 10:18 pm Whose the Nobby No-mates that thought this thread would be interesting?
Was bloody Lawnsy mate.
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