Re: Mate
Posted: Sat Sep 10, 2022 4:56 pm
Nobody forces me into nowt matekancutlawns wrote: ↑Sat Sep 10, 2022 4:56 pmCareful now. You’ve already been forced into an apology today, elsewhere mate.
Now, matekancutlawns wrote: ↑Thu Sep 08, 2022 12:53 pm I absolutely hate this presumptuous, timeless, casual, throwaway word that implies that you’re a friend of the person you target this to. Why does no one get annoyed in the same way as calling a woman ‘love’ or ‘darling’?
It’s seemingly benign, chummy without being intrusive and creates a quick connection. But I find it cheap, disrespectful and lazy.
Bud is too Americanised, pal suggests you about to punch the other person in the face, friend is patronising, geeze is rather blokish but anyone calling me ‘mate’ is asking for a punch on the hooter and strong words. Stop it.
Normally big fat birds or lezzes yes I'd saySadact7 wrote: ↑Thu Sep 08, 2022 10:15 pmBy “women”, you mean “lesbians” right?Sid Pervcat wrote: ↑Thu Sep 08, 2022 3:03 pm It's not an exclusively male thing mate.
Women use it as well.